Poor Buddy! He entertains me at his expense. I buy this particular canned dog food that he seems to enjoy—except that he hates peas. This food has lots of peas in it, and I get joy from noting how many peas the poor little guy manages to spit out while chowing down. Somehow he manages to spit them out every time.
God isn’t entertained by unnecessary suffering. He doesn’t amuse Himself by giving us stuff we don’t like. But somehow we Christians believe that if we enjoy a particular task or career, that it’s probably not God’s will to engage in it, as He’d rather we suffer for our own good.
Pastor Blaine Smith of NehemiahMinistries.org notes that our particular talents are what God designed into us to lead us to His particular will for our lives. He doesn’t give us gifts to ignore or deny them, but to equip us for our most effective work and influence in this world.
One movie that impacted me was “Patch Adams” which featured the late Robin Williams. In this film (spoiler alert) the doctor warns his beautiful, blonde assistant not to associate with a particular man who he says is very disturbed and potentially dangerous. But the woman, filled with compassion for this suffering soul, ignores Patch’s warning and meets the man alone, and is murdered.
Jesus commands us “to love our enemies (Matthew 5:44),” but the Bible is a book of balance, which is why it’s so important to base decisions, and beliefs, on more than one passage. Jesus also warned, “Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before swine, or they will trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces (Matthew 7:6).”
Jesus doesn’t require that we be masochists. He clearly warned not to deliberately seek out trouble, that we should exercise discernment as to whom we engage with, not placing ourselves into unnecessary danger.
One of the best spiritual practices you can engage in is to read one proverb for each day of the month. I don’t believe it’s just a coincidence that there are 31 proverbs, one for each day.
Proverbs 37:12 warns: “A prudent man sees evil and hides himself, the naive proceed and pay the penalty.”
And there’s the more familiar saying: “Fools enter where angels fear to tread.”
There may be times when the Holy Spirit leads you into danger so that those hostile to Christ come to faith. But I think that’s the exception, not the rule.
In summary, don’t think it’s more spiritual to suffer. Avoid the hair shirt and Cat O’ Nine Tails self-flagellation mentality. Life’s hard enough. Don’t make it harder by being an unnecessary masochist.
Trouble will find you on its own. You don’t have to seek it.
Love, from Dawn and Buddy
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Maybe you have unnecessary problems because of sin in your life. Few overcome their problems overnight, but accepting God into your life can get you off that broad path that leads to destruction and onto the narrow path that leads to life everlasting and the right direction (Matthew 7:13). If you’re ready to step in a new direction by accepting God as your Lord, the one Who guides you into what is the right or wrong way to go, please pray the below:
Dear Heavenly Father, I call on Jesus to be my Lord and Savior. Forgive me of my sins. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit. I give my life to you. In Jesus’ name, amen.
If you prayed with sincerity, congratulations on becoming born again and a child of the Living God. Please find a Bible-believing church to attend or Bible study to grow in the knowledge of God and Christian belief. If that’s not possible right now, please be sure to read the Bible daily. I recommend these three ministries, and all three have apps, also, to listen to: http://www.LTW.org, http://www.InTouch.org or http://www.BasicGospel.net. There are other godly ministries out there, but these will get you started in growing in your faith.
God bless. See you in heaven!